As sinners ourselves, it’s difficult to come down on the sins of others with out being hypocritical. This is a criticism of Christians: we’re not perfect, we’re not God, so what right do we have to pass judgement on anyone?
This is why it’s important to acknowledge our own faults and to understand what our roles are as Christ’s followers.
So, how does a sinner tell others about sin? What right do we have to do this? Paul says in 1st Timothy 1:8, “But we know that the law is good, IF a man use it lawfully.”
We should remind ourselves, “as it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one,” (Rom 3:10) and “all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.” (Rom 3:23)
No one is exempt from God’s judgement and everyone is a sinner, as awful as this sounds. But how we address sin is what separates us from the crowd.
We start with the crucifixion of Jesus Christ, which was a blood atonement for all of our sins. Because we believe this, we believe the Word of God, which was established from the beginning of time.
Put simply, Christians deal with sin by following the Word of God. And then there is everyone else: Those who think sin doesn’t exist, those who think sin doesn’t need to be addressed, those who think humans should do whatever they want as long as it makes them happy, etc.
This is where we have work to do and how we do this work is important.
First, we must acknowledge our own sin and offer personal testimony when appropriate.
Second we should do it with love, as my dearest friend always reminds me. We love the Lord and his creations. We love life and this is why we share the Word with others.
“Now we know that what things soever the law saith, it saith to them who are under the law: that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God.” Romans 3:19
Third, consider the delivery. There are many fragile, severely damaged people out there, who could be helped by our message and we should treat them gently, while always pointing to the Bible as the arbiter of all things.
The Bible says that “For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged.” (1st Corinthians 11:31). The point of informing someone of their sin is to AVOID the true wages of sin, not to justify ourselves before God or before men.
We as Christians acknowledge that it's impossible to follow the Word to the letter. But we understand that God sent his Son to cover our sins for this reason, if we choose to put our faith in him. We can’t be perfect, but we can and should seek to follow him more closely every day. Our mission is to help others do the same.
“Judge not according to the appearance, but judge RIGHTEOUS judgment.”
-John 7:24